Tuesday 2 February 2010

Seven traits i detest in people - maybe not in this order...

1. Me,Me,Me:
I hate people who are in it for themselves. These people are so wrapped up in there own little world that they don't see what other people are going through/feeling/thinking, which most of the time is a lot more than themselves. I hate selfish people, is there actually a need for it?
These type of people are the kids who bully because they think themselves higher than the rest.
Often these are the kids that were spoilt or given to much of a good thing when they were younger. Some of whom were never told that they maybe,heaven forbid, have a fault!
It does people good to have fault, it gives them something to change and aim for. It also teaches us that were not perfect and its not right to be perfect.

2. Ego boost:
The next type of trait i can't stand is the constant "i need an ego boost, tell me something good about myself..." people. These people always need reassurance that there work,clothes,choices are great and that your totally agree with them, so much so...you may be jealous. These people, who i name ego boosters - are often people with very low self esteem were they can't judge for themselves if there doing good and are desperate not to fail. That said, most of the time these people no there is good, they just want the attention and to feel that someone is sharing in there ego boosting ways.

3. Lets forgive and forget:
up there as one of my most hated trait would have to be the "lets forgive and forget" types.
I no a lot of these people to different extremes but they all have the same blinked glasses on. They think that no matter what it is they have done, be it killed your cat or borrowed your pencil without asking, they can just come back the next hour,day,year and say "I'm sorry, lets just forgive and forget". It also seems law that we have to agree to said thing and act like we do forgive, because, in a way that's there way of apologizing... well I'm sorry, but NO.

4. bloods thicker than water:
Oh that quote makes my blood boil. Its pretty self explanatory and you guess why i hate it but let me explain... This for me leads on from number 3, family members feel they can treat you as they like and they can justify it because your "family" and "bloods thicker than water". I really do not care who I'm related to, to me unless you prove yourself worthy of the title of family,then your not part of one. most of my family aren't worthy of there title, that's why i don't see them. Iv heard them all over the years, live and let live, lets sleeping dogs lie etc. they will not wash with me. Wow, we have the same grandparents that means you can do what you like and say what you like,..err, no.

5. Bulling:
you hear a lot about this in the news and its obvious why we all hate the people that do it and of course there is the same old chestnuts, "they do it because there insecure". what ever the reasons these people are nasty horrid creatures but it has to said, we have all done a form of it in our lives, be it telling someone you hate what there wearing, or laughing at someone when they fall over. Just because you haven't done it over and over or kicked someone really hard, it doesn't mean its not bullying. if you make someone feel bad about them self's which ever way you may have done so, that's bullying..its nasty and its horrid and the people who go out of there way to do so should be dam right ashamed of themselves.

6. Vanity:
I am all for people having confidence but when they shove it down your throat at every god given moment it makes me sick. Jealousy it is not. Have you ever sat on the bus and the girl in front is constantly flicking her hair from side to side or a man is constantly checking his reflection in the window... I'm am happy people have self believe and make an effort, lets face it..if they didn't no one would ever get married etc. but i hate people who no there good looking or they aren't good looking but people have told them so due to them wanting an ego boost (see number 2) and wanting there ego massaged. What ever happened to natural beauty were you were pretty and attractive but you kept it under wraps. I enjoy seeing beauty, it makes the world seem less..well ugly. Just some people go ott.

7. I want it all my own way:
Have you ever been in a situation or doing group work were someone is always dictating the whole thing, everything has to be done there way or no way at all. They are in charge and your dammed if you don't no it. These people do my nut in, they have to take all the credit all of the time and pride themselves on being a no it all. They will resort to almost anything to get there own way, from bullying to crying. it normally works as most people will do anything for a quiet life. these people tend to be an only child for obvious reasons. this reinforces in my mind why kids need to learn to share, there are many adults who do the same, they tend to be the type who suck up to the boss and hang on any person ,with authority, words.

The sad thing is we all no someone like each of these!

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